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Living with the Dead

How We Care for the Deceased

Spanning geographies, cultures, and the ages, a moving journey into the physical facts and metaphysical mysteries of how the living care for the dead. 
 
Death is universal. It will meet us all. But it’s also a practical problem—what do we do with dead bodies? Vibeke Maria and Andreas Viestad live by a cemetery and are daily spectators of its routines, and their fascination with burials has led them to dig deep to examine our relationship with the dead. Taking us on a journey around the world and into the past, the Viestads explore how the deceased are honored and cared for, cremated, and buried. From archaeological sites in Spain, Israel, and Russia to environmentally friendly burials in the United States and Ghana’s fantasy coffins, and from cremations without fire to the new industry turning our dearly departed’s ashes into diamonds, this empathetic and enthralling book is for anyone who knows their turn is coming, but who’d like a good book for the journey.

248 pages | 5 1/2 x 8 1/2 | © 2023

Sociology: Social Gerontology


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Reviews

"No bones about it, there are wild and wonderful ways to honor the dead. TV chef and newspaper columnist Andreas Viestad and his wife Vibeke live in a Norwegian cemetery. Their fascination with burials led them to dig deep into relationships with death."

Sunday Post

"Death is existential, instrumental, and emotional. In revealing the stories of ceremonies and practicalities from near and far, across space and time, the Viestads offer us an account that’s deadly serious as well as driven by a curiosity about rituals and feelings. A beautifully written, highly informative, and surprisingly entertaining book."

Thomas Hylland Eriksen, anthropologist and author of "What is Anthropology?" and "Overheating: An Anthropology of Accelerated Change"

"Vibeke Maria Viestad and Andreas Viestad, a food activist and former Washington Post columnist, take readers on an exciting and engaging journey to probe death and burial customs throughout world history... The authors are most able writers, offering a book that is extremely readable, compassionately written, and full of vivid examples, all of which make for an illuminating and satisfying reading experience."

W. Feigelman, emeritus, Nassau Community College | Choice

Table of Contents

Introduction: Death Is for Everyone
Chapter 1: In the Beginning There Was the Funeral
Chapter 2: Death as a Practical Problem
Chapter 3: Packed in Plastic
Chapter 4: The Business of Death
Chapter 5: Choosing a Coffin
Chapter 6: Dust to Dust
Chapter 7: Up in Smoke
Chapter 8: Piecemeal and Divided
Chapter 9: A Monument to the Dead
Chapter 10: The Empty and Nameless Grave
Chapter 11: Death as Jewelry
Chapter 12: Living with the Dead

Sources
Acknowledgements
Index

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